https://www.instagram.com/tv/CDNUA9Dn-VO/?igshid=1158r9ffyi21s
Yeah this thing got viral.
I dont watch the video, just seeing people randomly post or discuss about it.
I am a selective netizen.
If you ask me why i dont care about this issue is the relationship itself.
Girlfriend. Boyfriend.
Is there a legal law that both party signed so that they will have responsibility towards each other? Like a marriage?
No.
Even in Quran, Allah only mention the relationship that we should care and nuture well is marriage, family and among society.
There is no verse like 'thou the girlfriend should treat your boyfriend well'.
So like azwan ali said, why bother.
*Probably if i post this thought on soc media,the netizen will smash me with respond
"Ah kau. Tahu lah single toksah bitter sgt"
"Apa mslh kau? Nape nak anti couple plak"
"Kau les eh?"
*Sigh
Okey adik adik kakak kakak sekalian.
Pertama sekali, Allah tak mention benda ni dlm Quran, Rasullullah pun takde ajar tntg relationship mcm ni. Islam ajar jauhi zina and couple is one of the way.
"Kau ni ortodoks la"
"Sok ustazah kayaknya ini cewek"
Second, kalau kau xnk aku mention psl agama lets do a logic experiment.
Kau cari psgn yg dh berkahwin, yg bercinta sebelum kawin,lagi2 yg bertahun bercinta. Tanya dorg is marriage life equal to couple life? If yes in how many percent?
Marriage tu responsibility. You know why hot rich guy rather stay single than get married?
One is, they know how hard the responsibility is and they dont want to mess up. Ini pengakuan sorg youtuber Lepak One Corner. There is a saying that one will never be ready with marriage responsibility. But you know yourself well and to get married just because everyone did is a stupid action.
Two, they just want to have fun and fuck off the responsibility.
Back to the couple relationship, my third point is even if you want to be in that relationship, what do you expect of it?
A total adjustment with each other life before married? And how is the rate of success marriage?
I honestly feel to understand other people that are not related to us is a tiring process. Dengan kawan kau dari tadika pun kau byk kali gaduh sbb benda remeh, apatah lagi dgn lelaki/perempuan dewasa yg penuh dgn expectation.
Jgn tipu aku dgn ayat "oh,sy xde apa2 expectation pd bf/gf sy. Sy terima dia seadanya.jujur sy sayangkn dia"
Tanggungjawab melebihi masa yg kita ada. Sila tick pd tanggungjawab yg kau dah totally fulfilled:
-Tggjwb sbg sorg hamba Allah
-tggjwb dlm agama
-Tggjwb sbg sorg pengikut Rasullullah saw
- Tggjwb sbg sorg anak
-Tggjwb sbg sorg pelajar/pekerja
-Tggjwb pd society
-Tanggungjwb pd negara
Sbb tu aku rasa isu yg berkaitan bf/gf is a wasteful thing. Awek gold digger la, pakwe curang la...penat la. Otak aku patut lebih digunakan utk selesaikan mslh add math. Bukan utk dua org moron yg tak tahu apa dorg nk atau tgh buat.
Kalau kau nk someone kupas isu ni dr sudut the behavioral of human, kau blh search kat youtube or twitter. Ramai je yg dh diskus issue ni. Ada feminime thought, ada sexist thought, ada yg seimbang antara dua2 gender..feel free to choose.
Tp kalau kau nk pndgan agama, all those human behavioral point akan stop at the first question "is that relationship halal?".
"Do Allah like this relationship?"
