HAntu punya bos

Assalamualaikum.
Greetings.

*tajuk takde kaitan

Okay i just want to share my thought on sth. aku ada sorg kwn yg selalu terpalit dgn konflik dgn org  sbb sikap dia yg terus terang.atau mungkin ada yg gelarkannya mulut lancang.

Well these day everyone is mulut lancang kat facebook so dah tak heran dh.

Aku just terfikir mungkin dia patut tukar personaliti dia jd introvert . cause introvert hard to face conflict with others. because they dont talk much. me for example.

I mean some introvert can talk well infront of people, not that they has to be the shy type. but they just talk what is necessary. or sometimes they think too hard that they miss the chance to talk about their thought.

So if anyone ask me, to avoid conflict one must refrain yourself from being too close to someone. i mean dont tell everything to a human eventhough they are your best fren.

For me, i am comfortable to keep my personal life myself. i dont even talk about it with my mom or best fren. i mean yes sometime they know i am stress over something but what they dont know is how deep i feel hurt.

Maybe thats call ego to expose your ugly side & only show your good side. But seriously, no really single human can comfort u as Allah s.w.t. He know you too well. So why not giving all your good and bad side to Him.

Human feel hurt by other human because they have some expectation that the other person can  feel or understand him/her.

Maybe one should not take a person word or action to heart. i mean yeah he/she talk bad about you and you feel angry about it. just remember human has flaws so dont expect too much.

Remember how Rasulullah s.a.w face his enemy. even right now many people hate him by insulting his sunnah or his action. but he never show hate to other.

I mean if you mess with him, its ok. but if you mess with Islam then you are really dead and going to face with his ultimate anger.

So my point is, hate the action, not the person. you can forgive a person, but not the action. example, you hate if people playing with quran or hadis. but make a space in your heart to pray and  forgive the person who did that.

These is the reminder for myself especially. like seriously much easy to talk than do it.

So people, lets change for a better new world.

God you are so lame farhana. yes, i dont know how to properly end this entry.

Adios