Sunday, 29 December 2019

Binge watch : Adellea sofea episod 12- 16

Akhirnya seminggu sudah berlalu makanya kita khatamkan semua episod sekali jalan.
Supaya rasa sakit hati boleh dikurangkan.

Iya, saya ada banyak aduan nak buat tentang awak, Fir. Yes, you really getting on my nerves more than i hate Gu Junpyo in Boys Over Flower.

1. I hate the fact that you lie and you tend to make fun of it.
"Ohh, suzie we just tell sofea a lie so that she can stop interrupting our business. she is so fussy, so busy body and can't let me have my own space. she is just a wife and i bet she will forgive me when i start making stupid jokes with her"(this is the conclusion of fir thought about sofea)

then you making face and say stupid thing just to change the topic.

HUHHHHHH! I AM SO DONE WITH YOU!

my pet peeves is someone not getting serious in a thing that i think veryyyy seriously. okay, ungku ismail, you got me this time. you really make me hate fir.

2. You lie you lie you lieeeeeeee! and the fact that you have the guts to raise guilt in sofea for accusing you and shout at her when she making mistakes (being together with zaim) is really unacceptable.

Omaigod, you are the most despicable creature on earth, more than joe golberg (a character from You). At least Joe manipulates his prey with his decent puppy eye and brilliant mischievous tactics but youu omaigooddd you are so annoying, arrogant and bloody thrash.

okay come down.huh. *take a deep breath

i dont want to review suzie character. of course, everyone would pity her for being desperate.

okay,  i did agree with sofea action at the end of episode 16. she seeks advice from the right authority just to understand your struggle. yes, maybe like me, she confronts this problem with her emotion without really thinking of you as her husband.
me as well as other audience would try to understand what is so hard to be fir that has to take the drug just so he can live on and neglecting the perfect wife beside her.

watching these episodes makes me realise that every family has their own flaws. one would be so afraid when their family member involves with problems like a drug addict. but they never realise the thing that they afraid of is not because they could lose that troubled family member. but they are more afraid of society interpretation, their reputation.

i guess whatever happens or will happen to me or my family, i  should exclude the society opinion just so me and my family can fix it in our way. it might take time, it might be so hard. but the journey to becoming a better person through a tragedy is priceless. it just Allah want me to learn it in a hard way.

okay, done mengamuk kat fir.
i told you i can watch it every day as it will make me feel down. so the option is binge watch it every week. till now, bye.

Binge drama watching : you season 2

So these past two days i binge-watching you season 2.

Well, i prefer this drama series over adellea sofea. Well what you prefer, a drama about a married man and woman who have a secret with each other and stupid people around them or a drama about a psychopath yet 'decent' guy who very strategic in winning woman's love.

Of course, i choose penn badgley over ungku ismail aziz.

So after killing Beck in the first season & surprise us with the appearance of Candace at the final episode, Joe changes his name into Will. Or to be exact he stole the identity of Will Bettleheim, a sort of dealer,fixer. Joe meets Will to get a new identity but it takes a long time. So as he desperate to run away from Candace he just punches him and steals his identity instead.

So guest what happen to the real Will? Make a way for The Cage. The same cage that Joe has back in NY. He put the real Will there just so he can use his identity to win over Love, his new love crush.

Well, things get to quick with Love. Joe try to restrain himself from falling in love as he knows Candace might catch him in action. And the fact that he dont want to hurt Love.But it takes two to the tango, eventually, we will found that Love is as broken as Joe so they kinda match made in heaven.

So the issue that i want to highlight here is:

1. of course, for Muslim people, we must avoid zina. so i don't know why joe is so hot stuff that he have sex with a various woman (ever since season 1). even with his neighbour Delilah. I mean, joe personality alone is interesting enough so why not be a normal virgin guy who would married a normal virgin girl.
pfft what do you expect, he is a psychopath.
well, i am annoyed with the fact that at most of the time, it is the woman who gave in their body to this guy. 

so the lesson we get here is, avoid zina. yes, in a movie or drama it is sound thrilling but reality can be harsh. either you end up sleeping with a psychopath who leeches on you like a crazy person or having an unexpected baby when you are broke (which lead to family issue), being killed (like what happened to Delilah) or dumped when he is not into you anymore or many more. i seem like taking on woman side but believe me, the damage is on us.

2. the minority issue really getting on my nerves. can people see how stupid it is for a human to have LGBTQ lifestyle. like what happen to two of Love's best friends Lucy and Sunrise. They are lesbian couple who have an adopted daughter. their wedding scene at the end of episodes are so...weird for me. can you understand the feeling of their daughter and how miserable she can be. she might grow up thinking of she should find a good girlfriend and wife to be married.

somehow i miss emma stone's school society in Easy A.

they are talking about their first encounter and how beautiful their life become after meeting with each other. seriously, these people are sick. i should watch back ustaz wadi video

3.
as i am watching the drama,actually i don't know if this only happen to me but at first, i see candace as a distraction. somehow i am rooting for joe when he is planning to avoid her or expose her evil plan. but actually from the beginning till the end, candace is the true hero of the drama. he just a woman who wants to protect other women from having the same fate as her, and Beck. which is the character we need in society. not some bitch who underestimate or bully or just don't care about other woman issues.

at first, when she exposes joe true identity to Love, i just confused on why everyone around joe seems to relax. yes, they don't know yet that he is a killer but seriously don't they have a bit suspicious about his background? i guess that is the fact in our society. the media have reported sexual harassment against woman cases but the woman herself being blame. candace have a hard time to tell the truth to the policewoman, Love, Delilah and Forty. And when Delilah and Forty finally believe her, it is too late. I won't tell the spoiler about what happened to Candace.

4. as someone on the net said, bad people, is actually a good people that been hurt. you know how bad things can be stop? it is when we stop doing the same bad thing to others. even if we had a rough childhood, that does not mean we can harm other people. Love is a good sister who very protective with his twin brother. She the one who murder their nanny but she put the blame on his brother and let him live in confusion .it only end up damaging his life. he can never be happy living in a lie.

i cant sympathize anymore with Love's struggle to bring back her family together as all she did is throwing blame on anyone else, act like she is a free person but always use money as a solution to every problem that she had. and to be honest, i never like her character since the first episode when she throwing herself at joe. yes, she did defend a muslim girl in the second episode but like i said, that does not mean she can do crime and escape from the punishment.

she is as broken as joe. she is the second joe. and i am glad they end up together with joe feeling caged with their relationship. i guess he realised that all these while, he never love anyone. he just obsesses with them. like his new obsession, the neighbour.

the first season, at most time joe are too dependent with the social media and that is an insult towards human generation right now. the social media can be a medium for bad people like joe to enter our life and make damage.
the second season of You portray more on joe's struggle about his past, about how he want to repent from all the crime he did. but like the poster said, 'He meets his match'. He cant change or repents when the people around him is as toxic as he is.
and yes, again. just because he is good in one particular thing does not mean we can let go of the crime that he made. even if it is for justice, but he is not God to decide who deserve to live or die.
He has the same concern towards Ellie as he did with Paco from the first season. But that does not mean he is not guilty of the crime that he did towards their guardian.

so as a conclusion, i like the storyline but tbh i kinda despise everyone in that drama excluding candace, forty and ellie. basically it tell us how toxic person can be worse in toxic society.

Wednesday, 18 December 2019

Aku jadi stress lepas tengok Adelia Sofea episod 7 & 8

Mitos Cinta (dan apa-apa sajalah)

1. Dalam filem atau drama, orang yang paling tak percayakan cinta atau ikatan perkahwinan akan sentiasa end up dengan perhubungan yang bahagia dan hampir sempurna.
Sisi baiknya, ia mengajar kita untuk sentiasa berjaga-jaga.
Sisi buruknya adalah dalam realiti, orang yang tak percayakan cinta ni akan membujang dan hidup sendiri sampai ke hari kematiannya.

2. Lelaki seorang makhluk yang bermulut manis. Salah. Realitinya lelaki hanya akan bermulut manis dengan perempuan yang cantik. Atau mungkin masa tu dia sangat bosan.

3. Lelaki mempunyai 'visual attraction' manakala perempuan lebih memandang perkara sentimental. Seorang perempuan boleh jatuh cinta pada lelaki yang dengan gentleman nya membantu mereka mengangkat barang yang berat atau membantu mereka menukar tayar kereta.
Seorang lelaki pula boleh angau dan jatuh cinta pada seorang wanita cantik walaupun wanita itu sendawa dengan gaya paling tak senonoh.

4. Lelaki yang memuat naik status kecewa dan marah dengan teman wanita yang tidak jujur...saya ada satu soalan untuk awak.
Mesti teman wanita awak tu cantik kan? Seseorang takkan bodoh-bodoh bercinta dengan perempuan tak cantik hanya untuk dicurangi. Jadi jika awak nak bercinta buat kali kedua awak tahu kan dengan siapa awak patut bercinta. Again, salahkan visual attraction.

5. Dalam drama atau filem selalu ditunjukkan watak lady boss, perempuan jahat, cerewet, panas baran, perfectionist seorang yang cantik. Bagaimana jika seorang perempuan yang tak cantik memiliki semua ciri diatas? Adakah kaum lelaki akan melakukan demonstrasi tunjuk perasaan secara besar besaran?

6. Untuk perempuan yang mempunyai banyak skandal, tidakkah kalian kasihan dengan rakan kalian yang masih membujang?

7. Kepada penduduk negara media sosial Instagram, Facebook dan lain-lain lagi....sila senyap dan berambuslah kalian ke dunia realiti.