Cerita mengenai seorang influencer diceraikan melalui live mengganggu fikiran aku harini.
Honestly, I do sympathize with her. Umpama jatuh ditimpa tangga, not only her marriage destroyed and been watch by thousand people, tapi susulan itu ramai juga dapat tahu dia mengidap mental illness dan perniagaannya sedang diuji.
Honestly I don't know who she is. But bila tgk psl abang oku dia, I think ms pandemic aku ingat ada someone selalu post tntg abg oku nya. Maybe she is the one yg aku tgk, I don't remember.
Bukan sejarah hidup dia atau apa yang berlaku pd dia yg aku nk bincang. But the fact that kehidupan dia umpama satu buku yang terbuka dan dia sendiri yg membukanya. Dan org sekeliling dia take a ride on that.
Aku bukan menidakkan apa yg berlaku, apa yang dia rasa atau alami. Cuma aku skeptical bila semua tu dirakam. Beza betul artis dgn influencer ya. Diana Danielle tak pernah post psl mslh rumah tangganya, to be specific a video of kekacauan yg berlaku dlm rumah tangganya. So thus Emma Maembong and of course Mizz Nina.
Yes, keadaan live itu mungkin tak disengajakan. And mangsa mungkin berada dlm keadaan tak stabil utk terus stop kan live tu. I get that.
Cuma aku paling tak boleh terima bila kawan baik dia dtg then rakam dia yg tengah meltdown. Ya Allah, silalah tanya pesakit mental yg lain, tanya Arlina Banana, even Sharifah Sakinah. The least thing they want is dirakam ketika meltdown.
How do a friend have the audacity to record it. Once upon a time,bila aku stress menangis nk jumpa kawan baik aku utk luahkan, bila kami jumpa,both of our phone was in our bag. Tak sempat nak rakam atau even post about it. I just cry, cerita dan kami berbual seperti manusia normal.
Semua benda ni kalau dibawa ke mahkamah, mmg lawyer senang2 boleh sue mangsa for defamation. Kenapa semua kejadian tu dirakam dan ditonton kpd umum? Adakah itu disengajakan utk memburukkan suami? Adakah semua ini dirancang so mangsa blh menang public interest dan play victim?
Itu yg ramai persoalkan tentang influencer2 yg mmg mencari drama. Dari drama ex wife seorang ex husband kepada ini, just please society dah penat. I don't even know you, what you sell and really tak best utk kenal you melalui drama realiti ni.
And people around her, stop being toxic. None of you including the mother is helping her. They just menambah perencah dlm cerita ni. Shut up dan simpan statement tu utk pendakwaan di mahkamah. Kalau tak, semua statement yang dikeluarkan ke umum blh digunakan balik oleh si bekas suami tu utk sue not one but all of you.
Penatlah, tu pun nak ajar ke. Duit banyak tapi tak boleh nak spend duit hire PR, hire lawyer utk ajar you guys semua ni.
And reading her marriage story,to be specific where they get married, I cannot even brain how it is even allowed and everyone okay with it at the first place. Itu tanda pertama red flag dan semua org just ignore it? Now, as an observant lagilah aku sangat yakin yg syariat Allah dan peraturan perkahwinan Muslim di Malaysia ni dah cantik.
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