assalamualaikum
greetings.
kau kenapakah tulis sampai dua entri wahai perempuan?
haha
suka hati akulah
well sebab aku rasa rajin hari ni dan entri ni pun dah lama bersarang labah-labah dalam otak aku.
ia hanya, aku kurang gemar untuk tunjukkan tanda penghargaan aku pada seseorang kat media sosial. aku rasa macam aku hanya menunjuk-nunjuk dan buat orang lain pula terasa hati sebab aku tak bercerita tentang mereka.
jadi adil untuk aku ceritakan kat sini.
pembaca yang berusaha untuk ke blog ni dan baca benda merepek meraban yang aku tulis.
aku ada seorang kawan bernama munirah. aku kenal dia tahun 2013 macam tu ketika di uitm shah alam. somehow we just click together although our personality is totally different.
she stay at the same dorm with me and we always go to many event together. plus she have a car so yes, i am taking advantage of her (evil laugh). no lah, just kidding.
she really had ups and down during her study years. she suffers of health issue and somehow her physical and mental also sometimes got distracted (same like me too). it is a typical problem for a branch campus student like us to be a stranger in main big campus like shah alam. we share the awkward and low self esteem issue together but somehow she managed to be recognised because of her critical thinking and thought.
i always thought that we are a doppelganger (one of our same trait is introvert) but still far different from each other. here the list
1) i love to write...
stories. i mean fiction story. and on blog (not social media) i like to see things and make it into drama (seriously).
she like to write inspiring true story (and post it on media social). she like to share of her experience, feeling and thought as one of her escapism and healing process. she is more open to tell her stories but i prefer to just listen to other people true story. because my stories is too boring to be shared.
2) i love to read...
novel. and bickering about it when it is not good muahahah. yes, i am a drama person.
she loves to read motivational books and share the quote on her stick on note (that she paste on her study wall).
i only love motivational book when i am not lazy (which is rare).
oh one more thing. of course she is more attachable to read Quran than me. pfttt...please take note on this, girl (hard pat on my shoulder).
3) i love to eat and cook...
random cheap stuff. like aglio ollie.
she like to eat and cook nutritionious food like homemade air kurma.
4) i love to watch and listen to..
drama. korean, japanese, taiwanese, thailand, bollywood, hollywood...random decent good humour type.
i listen to random stuff like the drama ost, taylor swift songs, LP songs...from the mainstream to indie. international and local. as long as it is not cheesy and have no meaning. or i can't relate to anything meaningful.
she like to watch good islamic movie and inspiring hollywood movie. actually she seldom be seen to watch movie. but i know she is not the type of person who would waste her time watching korean drama or such.
she listen to inspiring song like the nasyid song and fynn jamal. seriously she love fynn jamal songs that she keep repeat all day and explaining to one of our housemate the actual meaning of the song. God, she is pure.
5) we love our car
that is our similarities. we are woman with car and drive like a crazy woman. muahahahaha. ok maybe i am much crazier.
then we graduate at the same time although she suppose to finish early than me. we both struggle to find career and alhamdulillah she managed to take a step forward in her life. because she is a chubby person with a big heart. she really deserve it.
i am happy to hear your good news, sahabat. keep calm and fighting! May Allah ease your way.
Me?
i still struggling to find myself, my place in this world. maybe sometimes i envy you but sincerely, as i think of all the harship you going through...you really deserve a happy ending. because you are my good sahabat, a person that i always want to look up as if we are mirror.
i want to be great like you. a doppelganger.
*okay maybe somehow you dont understand wth this girl is talking about in this entry. is she some psycho who would stalk and kills someone just because she want to be like her?
oh no, totally not that. she just a drama queen who have a writing addiction. bear it.
bye!
Saturday, 26 August 2017
hater gonna love
assalamualaikum.
greetings.
aku baru layan lagu taylor swift dan tiba-tiba terfikirkan tajuk kat atas ni.
benci jadi suka
suka jadi benci
manusia berubah
kerana itu perasaan juga berubah
dan sesekali jangan menilai manusia sebelum kita kenal dia
impressi pertama sangat penting
tapi ia bukanlah segala-galanya
aku hanya nak kongsikan beberapa figura yang aku rasa merubah pemikiran aku dari semasa ke semasa dan seterusnya memberi inspirasi untuk aku
ye, aku bukan buat roket sains atau jadi tokoh berjaya pun
tetapi sekurang-kurangnya pandangan cetek aku berubah dan melucutkan sesuatu stigma negatif dalam masyarakat
1. Hanis Zalikha
Aku kenal dia selepas dia jadi cerita muka depan satu surat khabar mingguan (dulu aku peminat tegar surat khabar tetapi selepas pemerintahan negara yang terbaru ini, aku jadi jengkel dengan media tersebut). Pada masa itu dia hanya seorang pelajar tajaan JPA untuk peringkat asasi kalau aku tak salah (sebab entah kenapa dulu aku salah sangka pelajar tajaan JPA adalah pelajar luar negara padahal si gadis ini hanyalah belajar UiTM Segamat).
Well, cantik (sangat), bijak, banyak bakat (menulis, modelling), kaya (rumah dia nampak cantik) dan baik (dia kongsikan kisah tentang keluarganya yang aku rasa sangat menarik)..tentu sesiapa saja cemburu. Aku masih tidak puas hati dengan gadis ini, kenapalah dia sempurna sangat. Kenapa blogger macam dia boleh popular & jadi cerita muka depan surat khabar? Sebab dia cantik je ke?
Aku mula ikut blog dia.
Okey, aku mula suka dia.
Maksud aku, ye aku tahu dia macam gadis yang lahir di dunia lain daripada aku. Tapi perbezaan itu tidak semestinya jadi asas untuk aku benci dia. Aku tak kenal dia dan dia tak kenal aku, jadi kenapa nak jadi pembenci (baca:haters). Semua entri dalam blog dia sangat menarik. Kisah hidup dia sebagai fashionista, pencinta kucing, usahawan, pe-makan tegar, traveller tegar, sebagai pelajar, pengacara dan kemudian pelakon. Aku takkan pernah merasakan semua itu jadi aku jadi sangat berminat dengan hidup sepertinya.
Kemudian dia mula popular di kaca tv dan semestinya tidak lari dari gosip. Isu tentang pakaian ketat, lamaran atas pentas dan mungkin banyak lagi. Aku tak kenal dia dan bukanlah peminat tegarnya tetapi aku hanya endah tidak endah. Well banyak lagi manusia teruk kat luar sana.
Kemudian, dia mula berhijrah dengan memakai hijab, kemudian berkahwin dan mempunyai anak lelaki paling comel. Life do her better and sincerely i think she deserve it.
2. Vivy Yusof
Aku sangat kosong tentang Fashion Valet sehinggalah tahun 2015 kalau aku tak silap aku lihat dokumentari tentang wanita berjaya. Sebenarnya aku tertarik dengan cerita dia sebab aku ingat dia adalah pelakon satu drama yang ada Erra Fazira juga tetapi bukan. Dia hanyalah anak orang kaya yang berjaya dalam perniagaan.
Impressi pertama yang teruk dan klise. Ye, kau banyak duit dan kau boleh jadi apa yang kau nak. Tipikal.
Tapi saat aku berfikir tentang kenyataan diatas kebetulan Vivy sedang menceritakan bagaiman stigma sesetengah pihak tentang dirinya.
"..ohh you punya daddy kaya bolehlah you berjaya. This and that but actually no. I tak kacau pun my dad punya business. Actually banyak sebenarnya peluang yang terbuka untuk mulakan perniagaan, you just have to search itu. Rugilah kalau awak sentiasa fikir negatif macam tu.."
Sentap. Okey aku ke orang yang dia cakap tu?
Lepas tu dia tunjuk beberapa babak Vivy sedang membelek satu folio yang ada gambar-gambarnya dan serius aku rasa ia sangat cantik dan kreatif. Bapanya juga ada ditemuramah;
"when she studying in london, i see she spend a lot of money on shoes, bag and clothes. i ask her, why you use my money to buy things? and she said, it actually her money from business card that she been doing in her university"
dia berdiri atas kaki sendiri, yo! cool gila.
"when there is my parents anniversary or birthday, me and my sister always buy cards for them. then my dad cakap why you spend money to buy card kalau you boleh buat sendiri? then it give me idea to make it myself. i decorate my own card and give it to them...saya rasa itu lebih bermakna"
dan dia tunjukkan kad yang dia buat untuk ibu bapanya. okey, cantik gila.
perempuan ini kan (hehe jeles tambah kagum).
paling penting, dan menarik sekali adalah dia hanya tua lima tahun dari aku. how cool is that to have your own company at such young age.
dan aku mula ikut blog dia. aku admire not only her talent in doing everything she love (writing, business, styling herself, blogging) but also her attitude towards her family. she used to have a granny that she is close to that inspire her to study hard and work hard ... its love and blessing from her family that brings her the success in life.
well blow off the bad story about her 'eating in diapers' issue. people make mistakes. and yes, you, me, are people too. she grew up in a businesslike family and her positive strong attitude that support her in her way to success.
at least she is far from the stereotype spoilt rich kid who leech on their family wealth.
perasan tak entri ni mula-mula berbahasa melayu kemudian berubah pula kepada omputih. ahah, aku masih gagal memelayukan penulisan aku. ia hanya, aku rasa aku sangat skema berbahasa melayu dan tak, aku tak rasa cool berbahasa inggeris (people who know me in real life know this). ia hanya aku rasa aku lebih selesa luahkan pendapat aku dalam bahasa inggeris.
hmm
ngomong saja sih apa yang kalian mahu. gue enggak mahu defend lagi kenyataan gue. udah basi lorh tau.
oh, ya. beberapa dialog dan fakta yang aku kemukakan tentang figura-figura diatas mungkin ada silap sikit. as long as you get the meaning of what i want to say (aku adalah orang yang paling stress untuk buat literature review dalam setiap kertas research. tak boleh ke kita just interpret fakta berdasarkan pandangan dan kefahaman kita?)
konklusinya, tak payah la jadi haters.
benci perlakuan kesalahan atau dosa.
tapi bukan insan yang berbuat dosa itu.
sebab kita bukan Tuhan untuk menghukum.
tapi hanya manusia yang boleh menilai dengan akal fikiran.
haters gonna love love love
shake it off
shake it off
bye!
greetings.
aku baru layan lagu taylor swift dan tiba-tiba terfikirkan tajuk kat atas ni.
benci jadi suka
suka jadi benci
manusia berubah
kerana itu perasaan juga berubah
dan sesekali jangan menilai manusia sebelum kita kenal dia
impressi pertama sangat penting
tapi ia bukanlah segala-galanya
aku hanya nak kongsikan beberapa figura yang aku rasa merubah pemikiran aku dari semasa ke semasa dan seterusnya memberi inspirasi untuk aku
ye, aku bukan buat roket sains atau jadi tokoh berjaya pun
tetapi sekurang-kurangnya pandangan cetek aku berubah dan melucutkan sesuatu stigma negatif dalam masyarakat
1. Hanis Zalikha
Aku kenal dia selepas dia jadi cerita muka depan satu surat khabar mingguan (dulu aku peminat tegar surat khabar tetapi selepas pemerintahan negara yang terbaru ini, aku jadi jengkel dengan media tersebut). Pada masa itu dia hanya seorang pelajar tajaan JPA untuk peringkat asasi kalau aku tak salah (sebab entah kenapa dulu aku salah sangka pelajar tajaan JPA adalah pelajar luar negara padahal si gadis ini hanyalah belajar UiTM Segamat).
Well, cantik (sangat), bijak, banyak bakat (menulis, modelling), kaya (rumah dia nampak cantik) dan baik (dia kongsikan kisah tentang keluarganya yang aku rasa sangat menarik)..tentu sesiapa saja cemburu. Aku masih tidak puas hati dengan gadis ini, kenapalah dia sempurna sangat. Kenapa blogger macam dia boleh popular & jadi cerita muka depan surat khabar? Sebab dia cantik je ke?
Aku mula ikut blog dia.
Okey, aku mula suka dia.
Maksud aku, ye aku tahu dia macam gadis yang lahir di dunia lain daripada aku. Tapi perbezaan itu tidak semestinya jadi asas untuk aku benci dia. Aku tak kenal dia dan dia tak kenal aku, jadi kenapa nak jadi pembenci (baca:haters). Semua entri dalam blog dia sangat menarik. Kisah hidup dia sebagai fashionista, pencinta kucing, usahawan, pe-makan tegar, traveller tegar, sebagai pelajar, pengacara dan kemudian pelakon. Aku takkan pernah merasakan semua itu jadi aku jadi sangat berminat dengan hidup sepertinya.
Kemudian dia mula popular di kaca tv dan semestinya tidak lari dari gosip. Isu tentang pakaian ketat, lamaran atas pentas dan mungkin banyak lagi. Aku tak kenal dia dan bukanlah peminat tegarnya tetapi aku hanya endah tidak endah. Well banyak lagi manusia teruk kat luar sana.
Kemudian, dia mula berhijrah dengan memakai hijab, kemudian berkahwin dan mempunyai anak lelaki paling comel. Life do her better and sincerely i think she deserve it.
2. Vivy Yusof
Aku sangat kosong tentang Fashion Valet sehinggalah tahun 2015 kalau aku tak silap aku lihat dokumentari tentang wanita berjaya. Sebenarnya aku tertarik dengan cerita dia sebab aku ingat dia adalah pelakon satu drama yang ada Erra Fazira juga tetapi bukan. Dia hanyalah anak orang kaya yang berjaya dalam perniagaan.
Impressi pertama yang teruk dan klise. Ye, kau banyak duit dan kau boleh jadi apa yang kau nak. Tipikal.
Tapi saat aku berfikir tentang kenyataan diatas kebetulan Vivy sedang menceritakan bagaiman stigma sesetengah pihak tentang dirinya.
"..ohh you punya daddy kaya bolehlah you berjaya. This and that but actually no. I tak kacau pun my dad punya business. Actually banyak sebenarnya peluang yang terbuka untuk mulakan perniagaan, you just have to search itu. Rugilah kalau awak sentiasa fikir negatif macam tu.."
Sentap. Okey aku ke orang yang dia cakap tu?
Lepas tu dia tunjuk beberapa babak Vivy sedang membelek satu folio yang ada gambar-gambarnya dan serius aku rasa ia sangat cantik dan kreatif. Bapanya juga ada ditemuramah;
"when she studying in london, i see she spend a lot of money on shoes, bag and clothes. i ask her, why you use my money to buy things? and she said, it actually her money from business card that she been doing in her university"
dia berdiri atas kaki sendiri, yo! cool gila.
"when there is my parents anniversary or birthday, me and my sister always buy cards for them. then my dad cakap why you spend money to buy card kalau you boleh buat sendiri? then it give me idea to make it myself. i decorate my own card and give it to them...saya rasa itu lebih bermakna"
dan dia tunjukkan kad yang dia buat untuk ibu bapanya. okey, cantik gila.
perempuan ini kan (hehe jeles tambah kagum).
paling penting, dan menarik sekali adalah dia hanya tua lima tahun dari aku. how cool is that to have your own company at such young age.
dan aku mula ikut blog dia. aku admire not only her talent in doing everything she love (writing, business, styling herself, blogging) but also her attitude towards her family. she used to have a granny that she is close to that inspire her to study hard and work hard ... its love and blessing from her family that brings her the success in life.
well blow off the bad story about her 'eating in diapers' issue. people make mistakes. and yes, you, me, are people too. she grew up in a businesslike family and her positive strong attitude that support her in her way to success.
at least she is far from the stereotype spoilt rich kid who leech on their family wealth.
perasan tak entri ni mula-mula berbahasa melayu kemudian berubah pula kepada omputih. ahah, aku masih gagal memelayukan penulisan aku. ia hanya, aku rasa aku sangat skema berbahasa melayu dan tak, aku tak rasa cool berbahasa inggeris (people who know me in real life know this). ia hanya aku rasa aku lebih selesa luahkan pendapat aku dalam bahasa inggeris.
hmm
ngomong saja sih apa yang kalian mahu. gue enggak mahu defend lagi kenyataan gue. udah basi lorh tau.
oh, ya. beberapa dialog dan fakta yang aku kemukakan tentang figura-figura diatas mungkin ada silap sikit. as long as you get the meaning of what i want to say (aku adalah orang yang paling stress untuk buat literature review dalam setiap kertas research. tak boleh ke kita just interpret fakta berdasarkan pandangan dan kefahaman kita?)
konklusinya, tak payah la jadi haters.
benci perlakuan kesalahan atau dosa.
tapi bukan insan yang berbuat dosa itu.
sebab kita bukan Tuhan untuk menghukum.
tapi hanya manusia yang boleh menilai dengan akal fikiran.
haters gonna love love love
shake it off
shake it off
bye!
Saturday, 19 August 2017
Puisi tak ada air dan ...
Jika semua itu hilang
Apa yang kau akan buat?
Jika benda yang kau selalu lupa itu hilang
Apa yang kau akan buat?
Jika hidup kau seteruk itu
Apa yang kau akan buat?
Manusia sering mengelak dengan persoalan 'kalau'
Katanya usah menyangka selain dari apa yang ditakdirkan untuk kau
Tapi tatkala kau jatuh dalam lubang hitam itu
Kau fikir alangkah baiknya aku jadi manusia prejudis
Daripada menjadi manusia sok redha
Sok alim memuat naik status islamik
Yang entah pada siapa ditujukan
Pada Tuhan yang setia menunggu solat dan doamu
Pada diri yang cuba melarikan diri dari masalah
Atau pada teman teman yang mempunyai hidup sok 'indah' di alam maya
Hai diri....aku tidak tahu apa lagi yang harus ku katakan
Pujuklah hatimu, kuatkan iman mu
Pandulah akalmu
Pada makna hidup sebenar di jalan Allah
Ingatlah bait indah dari Dia dalam mukjizat Al-Quran
Yang engkau selalu lupakan
Yang selalu engkau endahkan
Ya menangislah
Bukan kerana engkau lemah
Tapi sekadar melepaskan lelah hati dan fikiran
Berdoalah
Moga rahmat Tuhan sentiasa ada padamu
Apa yang kau akan buat?
Jika benda yang kau selalu lupa itu hilang
Apa yang kau akan buat?
Jika hidup kau seteruk itu
Apa yang kau akan buat?
Manusia sering mengelak dengan persoalan 'kalau'
Katanya usah menyangka selain dari apa yang ditakdirkan untuk kau
Tapi tatkala kau jatuh dalam lubang hitam itu
Kau fikir alangkah baiknya aku jadi manusia prejudis
Daripada menjadi manusia sok redha
Sok alim memuat naik status islamik
Yang entah pada siapa ditujukan
Pada Tuhan yang setia menunggu solat dan doamu
Pada diri yang cuba melarikan diri dari masalah
Atau pada teman teman yang mempunyai hidup sok 'indah' di alam maya
Hai diri....aku tidak tahu apa lagi yang harus ku katakan
Pujuklah hatimu, kuatkan iman mu
Pandulah akalmu
Pada makna hidup sebenar di jalan Allah
Ingatlah bait indah dari Dia dalam mukjizat Al-Quran
Yang engkau selalu lupakan
Yang selalu engkau endahkan
Ya menangislah
Bukan kerana engkau lemah
Tapi sekadar melepaskan lelah hati dan fikiran
Berdoalah
Moga rahmat Tuhan sentiasa ada padamu
Monday, 14 August 2017
Random
Random
Farah menekupkan mukanya ke paha sambil duduk memeluk lutut. Cuaca petang itu mendung dan sebenarnya rintik hujan sudah mula turun perlahan. Makanya kawasan parking atas bumbung kompleks membeli belah itu lengang. Farah saja yang sanggup duduk dalam hujan di tangga yang membawa ke tangki air itu.
"Hoi!", satu suara menyergah. Farah angkat muka perlahan, sudah kenal benar dengan kejengkelan perangai si pemilik suara itu yang suka mengejutkannya.
Cis, muka aku sembab pula.
"Ya? "
"Kau kenapa? "
"Kau buat apa kat sini?"
"Cari kau"
"Macam mana kau tahu aku kat sini?"
"Sixth sense?"
Farah senyum plastik mengiakan saja jawapan Taufiq.
"Dah hujan ni, kau pergilah. Nanti pape hal kau nk ckp dgn aku, kau sms je"
"Nah...nanti kau demam" ucap Taufiq lalu menghulurkn sweater yg dipakainya.
Kebiasaannya Farah pasti akan buka langkah silat jika Taufiq duduk dekat dengannya. Namun kali ini dia biarkan saja.
"Kenapa eh...manusia tak boleh lihat manusia lain simply as a human too? Kenapa ada label? Kenapa ada price tag? Kenapa eh?"
"Sebab susah kot. I mean aku pun jenis yg suka judge org dgn benda material yg dorg ada. I admit that. Mungkin somehow aku yg insecure dgn diri aku sendiri sampai xnk pcaya kan org lain as a human being too. That my case"
"So kau rasa...semua judgement tu wujud sbb human x trust each other?"
"Sebab dia x kenal or tak nak kenal, then mcm mana nk trust org tu kan. Makanya dia just assume this and that cth org pakai tudung is nice and org x pakai tudung is not. Ia jd habit dan tanpa sedar dia lukakan hati org. Other case.......it just they are bloody psychopath"
Farah tergelak.
"I will take the second reason.itu lagi meyakinkan"
"Yela2, anggap je aku paychopath. Bkn someone yg ada issue dgn diri sendiri"
"Well thanks. But i think i need more time with myself. Here your sweater"
Taufiq pandang farah lama.
"Hr ni je aku bnrkan kau jd dramatik layan perasaan dlm hujan. Tp no, you need to take the sweater. Karang demam aku susah.bye then"
Farah menekupkan mukanya ke paha sambil duduk memeluk lutut. Cuaca petang itu mendung dan sebenarnya rintik hujan sudah mula turun perlahan. Makanya kawasan parking atas bumbung kompleks membeli belah itu lengang. Farah saja yang sanggup duduk dalam hujan di tangga yang membawa ke tangki air itu.
"Hoi!", satu suara menyergah. Farah angkat muka perlahan, sudah kenal benar dengan kejengkelan perangai si pemilik suara itu yang suka mengejutkannya.
Cis, muka aku sembab pula.
"Ya? "
"Kau kenapa? "
"Kau buat apa kat sini?"
"Cari kau"
"Macam mana kau tahu aku kat sini?"
"Sixth sense?"
Farah senyum plastik mengiakan saja jawapan Taufiq.
"Dah hujan ni, kau pergilah. Nanti pape hal kau nk ckp dgn aku, kau sms je"
"Nah...nanti kau demam" ucap Taufiq lalu menghulurkn sweater yg dipakainya.
Kebiasaannya Farah pasti akan buka langkah silat jika Taufiq duduk dekat dengannya. Namun kali ini dia biarkan saja.
"Kenapa eh...manusia tak boleh lihat manusia lain simply as a human too? Kenapa ada label? Kenapa ada price tag? Kenapa eh?"
"Sebab susah kot. I mean aku pun jenis yg suka judge org dgn benda material yg dorg ada. I admit that. Mungkin somehow aku yg insecure dgn diri aku sendiri sampai xnk pcaya kan org lain as a human being too. That my case"
"So kau rasa...semua judgement tu wujud sbb human x trust each other?"
"Sebab dia x kenal or tak nak kenal, then mcm mana nk trust org tu kan. Makanya dia just assume this and that cth org pakai tudung is nice and org x pakai tudung is not. Ia jd habit dan tanpa sedar dia lukakan hati org. Other case.......it just they are bloody psychopath"
Farah tergelak.
"I will take the second reason.itu lagi meyakinkan"
"Yela2, anggap je aku paychopath. Bkn someone yg ada issue dgn diri sendiri"
"Well thanks. But i think i need more time with myself. Here your sweater"
Taufiq pandang farah lama.
"Hr ni je aku bnrkan kau jd dramatik layan perasaan dlm hujan. Tp no, you need to take the sweater. Karang demam aku susah.bye then"
Thursday, 3 August 2017
Review drama: Wedding
Assalamualaikum.
Greetings.
Another randomness from me is to watch old forgotten drama. Wedding is a korean drama starring jang nara &.... sorry i dont know the guy name.siwon sth i guess. This drama was aired back in 2005 when at the same time My Girl drama hit. I guess i remember this drama is aired in malaysia after my girl drama ended. And of course i didnt watch it because too fanatic with my girl. I found this drama interesting because of jang nara & the first episode where her character questioning everybody on 'what is important in a wedding'.
Here are the likes from me:
1. I am too bored with the 'arrogant-cold-heir' hero that i found seung woo character is so interesting. I mean, it really suit the actor who is soft spoken and has good look on him. Serious guy, you just have to be gentle like him and you can win a woman heart in no time. Plus, god why la his job is so interesting and charming..a secretary diplomat. But seriously he really had the dumb when it comes to love.
2. Jang nara. I told you i like her. Because she cute and dont fake it.
The dislikes from me
1. This story for me is simple yet frustrating. In the beginning i like how these two people from two world apart get along in a proper way (not the disgusting plot like one night stand or sth like that). it is a realistic plot when a woman and man has so many hesistation and issue in order to agree with a marriage. However the issue after married make me annoyed.
a) the jealous wife
Why is she being jealous with his husband past lover? Did she already know about that before they get married and vow to herself to always love the man no matter what. Seriously they are like running in a circle. In the beginning when she loose confident to get married, she run to him when she heard she can't live without him (as he is getting hospitalized for small accident).then towards the end when they are getting divorce, she run to him when she know he is going to US, saying the same thing 'i cant live without u'. So why you always pick fight with him, girl? Just be thankful he is not a scumbag who kiss another girl or taking advantage on your family wealth.
B) man and woman cant be friend
And so the wife got jealous for the husband friendship with Miss Friend. Yes, i got that you are jealous as he always go to this Miss Friend but seriously i cant understand why you make this small thing bigger . It is call reapecting other people relatuonship. You cant simply avoid the husband to see his woman friend and plus you know that she is like a family to him. Like a sibling. You get it? I dont see in any way that Miss Friend try to flirt with him. Forgive me if i am wrong or blindto see that. How many time he need to kiss and hug you just to assure you he love you,stupid woman!
C) past time
Why would you care about your partner past time? Why is the wife so afraid even in their honeymoon after she found out her last lover is his husband's senior? Past is past and beside Mr Ex Lover is so cool about it. He dont flirt with you to get you back or sth like that. So why bother that it is a secret that could ruin your marriage. Okay, maybe i dont know how it is feel being in a relationship, the jealousy and insecurity but dont make small thing complicated. And forgodsake why the hell are you keeping your past love picture Mr Ex Lover? It is so tacky
Yeah basically i just dont like the after marriage issue in this story. Maybe it is correct for couple to be honest with each other before getting married. It is important to know your partner friends and family so you can see the true personality of your partner. make a deep thought and whatever happen in the future, just remember what is point that make you choose him/her as your soulmate.
Waduh...kayak dukun cinta lagi. Emangnya gue bagi 6 dari 10 bintang kerana pasangannnya sgt cocok & kiut. Hehe.
Bye. I should sleep
Greetings.
Another randomness from me is to watch old forgotten drama. Wedding is a korean drama starring jang nara &.... sorry i dont know the guy name.siwon sth i guess. This drama was aired back in 2005 when at the same time My Girl drama hit. I guess i remember this drama is aired in malaysia after my girl drama ended. And of course i didnt watch it because too fanatic with my girl. I found this drama interesting because of jang nara & the first episode where her character questioning everybody on 'what is important in a wedding'.
Here are the likes from me:
1. I am too bored with the 'arrogant-cold-heir' hero that i found seung woo character is so interesting. I mean, it really suit the actor who is soft spoken and has good look on him. Serious guy, you just have to be gentle like him and you can win a woman heart in no time. Plus, god why la his job is so interesting and charming..a secretary diplomat. But seriously he really had the dumb when it comes to love.
2. Jang nara. I told you i like her. Because she cute and dont fake it.
The dislikes from me
1. This story for me is simple yet frustrating. In the beginning i like how these two people from two world apart get along in a proper way (not the disgusting plot like one night stand or sth like that). it is a realistic plot when a woman and man has so many hesistation and issue in order to agree with a marriage. However the issue after married make me annoyed.
a) the jealous wife
Why is she being jealous with his husband past lover? Did she already know about that before they get married and vow to herself to always love the man no matter what. Seriously they are like running in a circle. In the beginning when she loose confident to get married, she run to him when she heard she can't live without him (as he is getting hospitalized for small accident).then towards the end when they are getting divorce, she run to him when she know he is going to US, saying the same thing 'i cant live without u'. So why you always pick fight with him, girl? Just be thankful he is not a scumbag who kiss another girl or taking advantage on your family wealth.
B) man and woman cant be friend
And so the wife got jealous for the husband friendship with Miss Friend. Yes, i got that you are jealous as he always go to this Miss Friend but seriously i cant understand why you make this small thing bigger . It is call reapecting other people relatuonship. You cant simply avoid the husband to see his woman friend and plus you know that she is like a family to him. Like a sibling. You get it? I dont see in any way that Miss Friend try to flirt with him. Forgive me if i am wrong or blindto see that. How many time he need to kiss and hug you just to assure you he love you,stupid woman!
C) past time
Why would you care about your partner past time? Why is the wife so afraid even in their honeymoon after she found out her last lover is his husband's senior? Past is past and beside Mr Ex Lover is so cool about it. He dont flirt with you to get you back or sth like that. So why bother that it is a secret that could ruin your marriage. Okay, maybe i dont know how it is feel being in a relationship, the jealousy and insecurity but dont make small thing complicated. And forgodsake why the hell are you keeping your past love picture Mr Ex Lover? It is so tacky
Yeah basically i just dont like the after marriage issue in this story. Maybe it is correct for couple to be honest with each other before getting married. It is important to know your partner friends and family so you can see the true personality of your partner. make a deep thought and whatever happen in the future, just remember what is point that make you choose him/her as your soulmate.
Waduh...kayak dukun cinta lagi. Emangnya gue bagi 6 dari 10 bintang kerana pasangannnya sgt cocok & kiut. Hehe.
Bye. I should sleep
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