Tudung people

Assalamualaikum
Greetings

Jadi hari ni, mungkin ia sedikit kontroversi tapi rasanya aku perlu juga bercakap mengenainya.

Calm down people calm down. To be honestly i did follow vivy yusof and takahara on instagram. And i a

am not the person who will follow someone that i hate. I loves these two people. Vivy with her cheeky humour writing and taka with her awesome weirdness.

I dont have a problem with these two people personality or lifestyle. It just their appearance seem a bit trouble for me. Especially tudung part.

I already post an entry talking about how Islam is wide and there is variety of culture in it. The way muslim pakistan woman wear hijab is different from the way muslim london woman wear hijab. I get it and i respect it.

It just, i dont like how that shawl trend is getting weirder, how people are used to watch woman exposing their neck, their ear and even their hair. I can see that netizen who comments on a celebrity who did expose their aurat can be categorized in few type. The one who give harsh insult (pretending like they have no sin) , the one who give soft reminder and the one who support her.

Me neither.

I dont care much of what people wear because it is their money,their choice. And moreover, who need my thought? I am not a fashion stylist and dont have opinion on everything. I dont care to peek on sajat instagram because i know i will only curse her/him. Bak kata azwan ali, why bother?

But seriously,just a reminder for young people who just entering the teenage world, it is not the appropriate way to wear tudung. Allah swt save give you the guideliness about woman aurat in His love letter

Labuhkan kerudungmu menutupi dada mu terutamanya. Your 'accecories' is not there to show people. 

"Hei, pakai style mcm tu menutup apa!",someone would say.

"Habis nk pakai tudung labuh macam ustazah? Narrow minded sgt", someone else would say. 

Ok. Kalau kau tuan puteri yg pergi balik keje/ sekolah dgn  driver, naik heli tak tempuh jammed, keje hanya menaip dan menulis dlm ofis, tak perlu angkat brg berat...then silakan. Kalau kau rs throughout your day ada bodyguard yg akan lindung kau kalau tudung kau terselak dek angin, ada bodyguard yg blh halang lelaki dr tgk & cuba ngurat kau, kalau kau blh jd invisible dpn semua org ...then silakan. This style is for you. 

Tp hakikatnya, we never knew what ahead us throughout a day. The courage of being woman akan datang bila kau rasa selamat dgn diri sendiri. Bukannya 24 jam asyik tarik tudung ke bawah sebab ternaik bila kau bergerak, 24 jam nk menghadap cermin btulkan rambut kau yg terkeluar. 

Islam tu memudahkan sbnrnya. What i learn from geng tudung labuh back in college is it is so easy to wear tudung labuh when u had a busy day or go travel. Senang nk solat, senang kalau tiba2 kena buat aktiviti fizikal yg paksa kita utk byk bergerak, senang kalau tiba2 hujan turun & taklah badan kita jd transparent gila bila bsh kuyup, senang kalau tiba2 eksiden aurat kita dh terjaga. 

You never thought about that,kan geng2 hijabista? 

Itu baru pasal diri sendiri. Belum lagi tentang mata2 jahat lelaki yg memandang. Yes, kes rogol yg jd bkn sebab pakaian wanita. Dan lelaki masih boleh byg yg bukan2 walaupun kau bertudung labuh, berniqab bagai. Cuma, jgn menggalakkan lg imaginasi mereka. Kau pakai tudung tp pakai baju ketat, mmg free show je. Dan kalau benda buruk tu tak berlaku pd kau, ia mungkin berlaku pd org lain. So save other woman from being a rapist victim by covering yourself well. 

Itu je aku minta. 

Please cover yourself well sister. Kau kecamlah aku macam mana yg kau nk. Believe me, i am worst than you guys in term of appearance and taqwa. Sometimes i got no time to iron my tudung so i

wear tudung sarung & go to the grocery shop. The tudung will easily flipped if there is a strong wind and make my aurat uncovered. We make mistakes and sometimes it is just happen unexpectedly. 

But do try to improve your aurat everyday. Protect them and only show how beautiful it is just for your husband. 

Aku dah malas tulis dan ayat aku dah tunggang langgang,bye.